Revenge or forgive?

Assalamualaikum and hi,

This week is a very hectic week and it's Monday, the beginning of the
week! Ya Allah i have 4 days more to face tsk tsk. But it's okay keep being strong girl.

As i'm stress right now, i cant control my temper and i get angry. But the good thing is, i dont scold people, i just curse them in my heart! Hahahaha but its better than cursing them out lout right?

So, i dont like selfish people. I think i'm a selfish person but now i met people more selfish than me. Its like they always think only abt themselves, and sometimes stingy (in terms of money, time, knowledge and etc). Yeah i know its like talking to a mirror haha, but yeah i dont really like it and i dont know how my parents especially my mum are patient to have a daughter like me.

When people are selfish with you, how will you treat them? Revenge or just forgive them and be like naah i'm okay with that?

For me, i try not to revenge, i try to understand them by asking "what will i feel if i'm in their shoes?" But you know, wearing your own shoes is much more better. Cus the thing is when they become selfish and you cannot say anything about it, its like your heart is burning. 

So I decided not to care about that kind of person, like you with your own matters and i'm with mine. That's it, hands down.

But there's a friend of mine, who have such a beautiful heart cus she always think about others, although other people neglect her or being selfish with her. Sorry i'm not there yet, but one day i will.

The most important thing is, DO NOT LET ANYONE CONTROL YOUR LIFE CUS YOUR LIFE IS YOUR LIFE, but, DO NOT DO THINGS AGAINST THE RELIGION.

Be happy, live happily :)

kakak garang

Assalamualaikum and Hi,

Lately ive been so emo, sad and stressed. So, i easily get mad when things do not work.
I'm the eldest sister of the seven siblings, and it is my responsibility to take care of them when my parents are busy, or go somewhere.
But the thing is, sometimes these kids tend to become super duper annoying until i feel like i wanna hit them (yes i did, with the rotan). Well, the way they are naughty, stubborn, annoying, and crazy lazy remind me of somebody who was used to be like this before,

.....which is..ME.

Yeah, I'm just like those kids before, and now, it's like I'm facing another me. Not one, but three okay, THREE! And I dont know how my parents deal with me back before.

I should be nice to them cus, it's just not the right way to teach them. But what can I do, I'm so tired and I can't deal with it.

Maybe I should learn to control my temper, perhaps (if somebody is willing to do my Microecons works then I'll change haha jkjk).
I'm just afraid that this "kakak garang" syndrome will be with me until i have my own kids. No way I'm gonna be so garang to them.

Be patience, just say nice words and keep calm.

Blogging again

Assalamualaikum and hi,

So ive not blogging for a longggg time, and hence i decided to start blogging again and write about positive things ONLY. I know life is hard, but yes we have to move on, and mend our broken hearts.

Hihi so guess who inspired me this time? No no not dena bahrin. Maria elena? No jugak.

Its Vivy Sofinas, or Vivy, the owner of FashionValet. Reading her blog about her life, her husband and son, really inspired me. I believe that she also face hardship in life, but she choose to look on the bright side. Hence, i should do the same too, write about good and random things in life, and the negative side, just write in my diary. Maybe one day if i almost want to give up in my life, i will read all these posts and keep moving on with life.

Besides, i wanna be a positive person cus there's too much negativity in me. To do that i must see things in life as positive and the positive vibes will always stay with me. Insha Allah.